Tuesday, August 04, 2009

Final Episode......

story about my "princess". :) It's going to be a long post, if you like to read, then continue, if you don't like, you can stop it here. :) If you don't like my writting or too sensitive, please don't comment or "shoot" me!

On Sunday, finally we sent our maid off, she complete her two years contract with us. She still make us/ME pissed till the last day she left!!! Too many things about her, i just too lazy to write write it out. This is only about her "leaving story"!

I told her about her leaving on Thurs night, i ask her to give a call to her parent to pick her up in the airport and i tell her she will be leavning on this Sunday. She knows that she is leaving in August but don't know the date, i think she do think she is leaving in between 10-15 August. Thurs night she cannot get hold of her father, the number we called, said "the number you call cannot receive call???" So i give up, the next day i try to get agent to contact the agent in Cambodia to help her, but they said Sunday agent not working wor :( To cut story short, so i told her, since you're back in Cambodia, you should have no problem in communication, you can ask how to go back. You know after that what she tell my mil? She said, i don't want to take taxi back i want to take bus o_o.

On last Saturday afternoon, i told her, no need to boil soup on Sunday and ask her to wash her bed sheet and clean her place before she go back. She look at me and ask me " I'm going back tomorrow??" I said " yes, i told you Sunday???" she said "i thought is next Sunday!" I told her if today (Saturday) got time, pack some of your thing first.

When she start packing, my sons were having their nap, so i was watching her packing her bag and also i'm checking through her thing. I look through the clothes she bring back, mostly is we gave her one, and her old clothes, she leave it behind, tell me she don't want it anymore. I saw one piece purple sleeves top, which is i know not belongs to her and i ask her "whose clothes is this?" she answer me " ma'am this one i bring from Cambodia!!!" *louder tone than me* I ask her again "Cambodia?? You sure??" because i saw a big "momoe" word on the tops and also on the tag, she still insists that is she brought from Cambodia, i ask her "cambodia got momoe brand???" "YES!!!" *very confident!* I still put the top aside and slowly check other things. I found more hair accessories, clips, hair band, and some small bling bling things (she like all that). I ask her, she still tell me "this is Ma'am buy one!!!" Eh, of course i remember what i bought for her, but that doesn't look like i buy before!! Fine, she don't tell me that, small things i just let her take. Later i found she took new tooth paste, new pack of pads, i said those tooth paste for the other maid to use, since she is going home, cannot bring all these things back. For the pads i give her a few (but i found more the next day, she still tell me i give her!!) Actually this is all small things, if you ask me nicely i don't mind to give, but you don't ask and take, which i don't like. I keep back the tooth paste!

I check through her book and dairy, i found some telephone number. I ask her whose number is that all start with "o12" and "016", she said this is her uncle, aunty, brother in cambodia. I ask again, "huh?? Cambodia also got 012 and 016?" There is still got other numher which i know is Cambodia number but not "012" or "016". I ask her again, she still tell me the same, i try to call the number, and she start panic, she tell me "it's my friend" I ask"what friends?", she said when she bring the dog out to "jalan jalan" she know some maid nearby, one filipino, and one Cambo maid also, somemore can tell me that cambo is maid going back on 13/8 too!!! Looks like when she bring the dog out, she is making friends around and chatting with them! No wonder, mil had been telling me, when my maid bring the dog go out always take very long hour to come back, after that i stop her to bring the dog out again!!

Finish checking her bag, i ask her to lock the bag and put it in my room, the balance of her things i ask her to put in another bag which i gave her. Now, back to the top issue, after snapping a picture of the Momoe top i sent mms to my sil and hub's sister, ask this tee belongs to anyone of them? Hub sister reply and said the top belongs to her which she had been looking for it high and low for so long already!!!!!!!! When i ask her later, she smile at me and said "sorry ma'am" ARRRGG!!!! I hate she lied so much!!! I told her don't think i'm so so stupid and always lied to me, on the last day still want lied to me!!!!! Which make me really pissed off!

Night time we brought her for steamboat as "farewell dinner", after back from dinner, my hub taught her how to use her new handphone (she request to buy handphone, of course this one is deduct from her salary). She is so naive, after told us she want to buy handphone, then we get her the handphone, she told us, it's ok, no need to call her parent, she can use her handphone to call. We ask her, no sim card how to call? Then have to tell her, after go back to Cambo then apply for the line or get the card. Duh'!

On Sunday morning, after me and my sons woke up, i just briefly check through her room see is it all the things cleared. Then i ask her to bring me her second bag to check, she a bit surprise when i said i want to check her second bag. Check through, i found three full bottles of shower gel/shampoo she want to bring back, one of it it's Victoria Secret bottle, i got a shock when i saw that, after that she told me, she re-use the bottle i throw away. :( I found more pads, and i ask her did i gave her so many on day before, i don't think so but as usual she answer me "YES! Ma'am give!!!!" *sigh* no point argue with her again, i let her take. Then i check one of the plactic bag again which contain all the bling bling hair clips and hair band, i surprisingly to find out there is one Cinnamoroll character hair band in the plastic bag which i didn't see it on day before. I ask her, she still insists it's i buy one!!!! I tell you!!! I'm SO ANGRY! I know that is belongs to my sil's daughter one, i saw her wear and she just bought it from Japan, and how can it be i buy one???? I called my sil's daughter to come and check her hair accessories thing. She said "omg!! This is all my hair clips!!!!" I ask the little girl to take back all her hair clips, and leave behind those not belongs to her. She want to lie, end up more things cannot bring back! Really sickening!! Finish checking, the bags are in my room, ask her to get change and shower then i do the final check on her. Saw her handphone already got some new bling bling dangling things hang on it already. *no eye see*!

We went for an early lunch nearby my house, then i went to pick up my sil at the market, she is going with me to the airport. I alone cannot handles two kids and one maid, i ask for her help. Reach airport, after checking in the bags then bring her to the immigration and pass her the passport and the doc and tell her if she don't know, please ask or follow people and show her which gate to board the flight, bla bla bla. After she took the passport and the document from me, she just LEFT LIKE THAT!!!! Not even said BYE TO US!!! If she don't like me i understand but she taking care my sons for TWO YEARS, no feeling at all!!!! I called out to her, i said "eh, you don't want to said bye bye to my sons ar??" Only she look at my sons from FAR and said "BYE!!!" then went off!!! 0_0

My sons said bye to their kakak then keep ask me "where kakak go?? why go back?? Go home already?? bla bla bla" then me and my sil we pass by a duty free shop selling chocolate, we went in and we had a good time buying the chocolates!!! I bought my sons some toy chocolates, this keep them "quiet" for a while not asking me about their kakak. In the car they ASK again!!! Till last night they still asking where is their kakak, no more come back??? :( :(

Last night my maid called my bil, because we gave her my bil hp, i didn't give her mine (so mean ya) So i suppose she already reach there safely? She told my bil, she want to come back to work again, BUT not at the house, she want to WORK AT THE MARKET! *blek* ask her to dream on la!

27 comments:

pauline s said...

Hi Annie Q. I used to have a Cambodian maid that I engaged for 9 months before I sent her back! Really tak tahan! You also quite good can tahan 2 years. My Cambodian maid have all the traits (stubborn,loves to lie etc) of your Cambodian maid and not sure why, they loves all the pad we bought them? Maybe don't have at Cambodian! My maid also steal a lots of my dd hair clips!

mommy to chumsy said...

My blood also boil from reading your post. Can't understand why they have steal things. She thinks she has more freedom working in the market and can meet up with other male workers...like the previous indon maid...hahahahahha

mott said...

wah.... i'd be so angry. so many things she just take. sayonara to her!

jazzmint said...

wth...balik oso wanna lie so much, if me i think i just let her go home in 1 piece, no bag nothing LOL. cause blood boiling too much liao

Irene said...

walaoeh, vomit blood here also. ada maid susah, tarak maid pun susah. aduhaaaaaaai :(

BoeyJoey said...

And I thought Cambodian maids have better attitude compared to Indonesian maids... My Indonesian maid also likes to lie :-(

Btw, Annie, I have an award for you http://boeyjoey.blogspot.com/2009/08/lovely-blog-award-and-best-blog-award.html

laundryamah said...

memang beh pai seh!

Health Freak Mommy said...

LOL, she wants to come back to work in the market! So will you be maidless from now onwards?

mumsgather said...

Errr.... the pads dun have anything inside them? Very easy to hide valuables inside wor..

IMMomsDaughter said...

Ha ha ha....at MG's comments. Never thought of that you know. Anyway, it's great that you celebrated her departure with chocolates. Yummy.

etceteramommy said...

I only pity the boys. They treated her with their sincere heart and not even a word of goodbye from her. It's ridiculous! Cold blooded!!!

janice said...

aiyo... no wonder you are counting down for her to leave !!.. sayonara lerr... come back ... dream lah ..

mom2ashley said...

i am surprised that you can tahan her for 2 years! :)

Krystal said...

I dun know why cambo maid likes to steal. My mum's cambo maid stole an accummulated amount of RM3500 and when she found out, immediately sent her home. At least, you can have comfort that your maid has been treating your boys well, else, your boys won't be asking 'where's kakak?'.

vien said...

wei, kawan..sorry ya, didn't had time to read your blog. i didn't bother to read previous "episodes" but thank goodness she's out of your life. so, did those chocolates taste extra yummy that day? hahahaha..

lisaOne said...

omg! what can i say? good riddance actually. i won't want someone like that to take care of my boys. will give me a heartattack.

reanaclaire said...

one month before my daughter was born, i took in a maid.. i cannot do without one.. one worked 2 yrs, 2 worked 4 yrs, and now this one currently is 5yrs over.. all with different kinds of character, among the 4 maids, i really miss the 3rd one, too bad her hubby wanted her to go back otherwise, i really dont mind her working for me as long as she wants..

the present one.. she is 50.. she is ngam ngam chum chum type but i bear with her.. other than her quick temper, i dont mind having her as a "teman" in the house, nothing much to do now, just me and my girl. we seldom eat at home..so it is like more or less for company..at least when we go out, there is someone at home.. so above all these, i just closed one eye on her slowness, grumpiness and not perfect cleaniness.. :)

jacss said...

wuah...can really smell yr 'fire' & anger!! i would taken back everythg that doesn't belong to her, no tolerance absolutely!
with such stealing habit, am sure she'll be chased after by a meat cleaver if she ever works in a market :)P
hope yr next one will be better, how's the boys coping without 'kakak'??

Lovely Mummy said...

they are like that, i mean mostly all the maids, cool blood. Still called back want to work in the market. Haha...really ask her to dream.I think we're happy without maid even though we need to do all the house chores.

slavemom said...

Good riddance! U said u're short tempered but I think u hv great patience. To be able to tolerate this kind of behaviour for 2 yrs. :) Good luck with the new one!

2ma said...

u r so nice, still take her for farewell dinner!! i would have take back everything i give her if i found out she keeps lying again & again!!

michelle said...

Hope you get a better maid next time, if u are getting another one.

Bryan and Brandon's Mama said...

I always think getting maids depends on your "luck". But reading yours, I feel like vomiting blood!

MK mummy said...

Finally, your princess is out of your life. :) I read the post also boiling blood.

Sukkimi said...

Haha.. guess what i actually read your whole post on maid..
I think all maid are the same. not matter how good they work or they seem to be. I never build "relationship" with them. I always draw a line. Haiz.... My encounter with maid is never good either. They always do things / break my things on purpose.

coffeesncookies said...

i just found out from my Cambo maid they have a secret compartment in their undies to hide money when they go back ! How leh ? How to bring myself to check her undies before she leave ? I scared suay lah !! tsk tsk..
Mine also same case, tells me no more pad but i see tons in her room. Maybe she's secretly hoarding all the pads to bring home. Lucky my maid never met your maid, I think they can jabat tangan. Princess vs Fan Shee. hahahaha !!
Eh.. i think yr maid wants to mingle with the guys in the market lah.. she don't like to take care of yr kids..

Angeleyes said...

Sorry for not visiting your blog for so long but this post certainly a great read! hahahaahaha


Your maid really 'in-love' with all the pads hor? I think she wants to bring back to use lar coz she may not be able to afford any back home! Or maybe she wants to give her 'ji-mui' who has never seen anything like that? kekekeke

Good that you finally get rid of her... at least you can stay younger longer... and less white hair too! hahaha